FAQs
Findom is short for “financial domination,” a special kind of relationship. One person (often called a paypig) willingly gives money or gifts to another (the dominator) to feel controlled. The dominator gets satisfaction from being in charge of the money. It’s mainly about the mental connection, not just cash.
A paypig can send money regularly, buy gifts, or do tasks the dominator asks for to show loyalty or get attention.
Like making a new friend, take it slow, talk a lot, and be clear about what each wants. Start with small payments or simple tasks, don’t give too much at once, and build trust step by step before doing bigger things.
Some think it’s just “paying for a service” and miss the mental and emotional part. Or, without clear boundaries, someone might feel used. Both need to know findom isn’t just a transaction—it’s a relationship based on agreement.
A healthy relationship is built on respect, openness, and both feeling good. The paypig should feel happy, not stressed, and the dominator should respect limits, not push too hard. If anyone feels uncomfortable, controlled, or stressed about money, it’s time to rethink or end it.